Do I really need a new pair of glasses?

I was listening to a podcast the other day and this woman was telling the story of how she and her son were driving together when she had to slam on the breaks. Her son was mad at her because by slamming on the breaks, he spilled his soda. She explained to him that because she slammed on the breaks, she probably saved his life. She could buy him another soda. The point of the story is that we all see events from our own perspective. In our case, coaches see life events from their pers